What is friendship?
Friendship is a relationship between one person and other, that he/she likes. He/she treat them special and better than other that he/she does not like. of Friendship helps people connect each other. It can bring people the joy of sha ing secrets and shoving problem when they can not talk to another person. Friendship can fall into three kinds: true friendship, deceitful friendship, and self-conceited friendship.
First of all, true friendship is the real meaning of caring for a person whom you call your best friend. They are sympathetic with you when you have troubles in your life. They also bring happy to you and help you to become a perfect person. . You can sh re your experience with them. In our life no one is perfect, so you need learn a lot of different ideals from others. If you know to listen their ideas, you are more useful in the big society. True friendship come to you with a trustful heart. They do not care about your background family, education, and so on. For instance, when I first came to the US, I did not have any relative or friends. I was homesick and really wanted to come back to Vietnam. At that time, Hoang, who is my new neighbor came over to y house and helped my family a lot things such as helping us fill out some kinds of forms, giving a ride when my family needed to go to a hospital for health examinations, and vice versa. Since that time, he became my best friend. I could share with him a out my concerns like how to deal with a new life which is so different from the life in my country, or how to learn English very well. He always help me to shove those problems. He also shared with me his dreams. In spite of he is a disable person, but h really wanted to go to school to get a
degree. He wants to earn money by himself. He hope that he will has a happy family in the future. He usually told me that I can call him and ask for help anytime. Sometime, he took me to some places with his friends He could talk about his girlfriend and ask me about how to please his girlfriend, and vice-versa. I always feel happy when we talk each other. He is still my best friend now.
A second kind of friendship is a presumptuous. Some people can take advantage of others in their friendship. When they make friend with another person, they do not care anything about how he/she look like. They only care about his/her family rich or poor Even though, they know that it will not bring happy to them, but they just want to achieve their purpose which they dream of it for a long time. For example, my girlfriend, Thanh, who learned English with me at DongKhoi language Center in Saigon, Vietnam She knew that I would go to the US, so she prevented to be my girlfriend. I did not know that this was her intention. She and I kept relationship until I left Vietnam. Since I came to the US, she often sent a lot of letters and told me that she loved me ery much. After a few months, she asked me if I could sponsor her to come to the US, and she also asked me to give her money for studying English well. I believed her so much, so I regular gave money for her education for two years since I came to the U ited States. After she graduated computer science engineering as a bachelor degree, she did not write a letter to me anymore. She got married to another boy.
The third kind of friendship is deceitful friendship, which can hurt a person's feelings when they find out their friend has not been particularly faithful to them. They are people who never graceful someone had helped them. They just come to another pe son when they need relieve. My friend as an example, Toan, who is my classmate. Toan is always jealous of me when I get high grades in class. When he has a chance, he sometimes talks bad about me with others. Moreover, he tried to separate me from my girl riend. On the other hand, Toan just tried to be a good friend when he need some helps from me. Sometimes, I wonder what kind of friend in this, and why do I still keep relationship with him until now?
In conclusion, each person should has a friendship in their lives. Even though, we will meet a bad friend, we still need a friendship. It will help us to find a best friend and also make us feel happy in our lives.
